Keeping Conflict Constructive- Reframing Questions

1. Why? - Help me understand why you believe X, Y, Z?
2. Why not? - Why not pursue these other options?
3. What if? - What if we found this assumption to be false?
4. What (be in my shoes)?- What would you do if you were in my shoes?
5. What makes it optimal?- You must have reasons, I would like to hear them?